Flirting and Dating

Flirting and Dating Romance

by Dominiqe Parker

Everyone wants to be liked at one time or another. In order to establish attraction a basic push pull interaction likely occurs. This back and forth happens between boss and employee, friends and family and would be lovers.

First you create rapport and then you break your attraction rapport groove. But, the first step is to create rapport. There is no do-over. Inner game is the number one problem and you need to address where one needs to match their outer game with the inner game.

When you're hitting it off and have taken time and not rushed it uncomfortably, you' established a rapport bond. If you jump into agreement too quickly, you may not have established a solid enough foundation.

You'll need to feel confident, not needing approval from others by caring about what they think, not carry limiting beliefs and have self-discipline not get impatient and jump out of rapport.

Push - pull flirting is similar to any TV sitcom and many plots in movies where there is conflict and resolution repeating itself where the viewer gets hooked into the story line. Riding along with the action causes one to engage and become involved.

And likewise, in human interaction, this hook in the story line gets one interested. This can be done in many different ways. Some overtly, some by subvert gestures. Teasing is another popular way this interaction can occur.

When you have established rapport and then break report, the person will try to qualify themselves in some way. When you take rapport away from someone, they will try to regain it. For instance if you criticize someone, the first thing they will do is try to defend by explaining themselves. They are basically trying to qualify themselves to that person and you get back into rapport again.

Usually, it is the strongest personality that is the leader and they are not necessary better than you. They take risks and are not conversation lazy. They leave suggestive spaces for you to participate conversationally. Confidence comes from assuming an outcome and not asking but instead telling them for instance to give you their telephone number.

If you have negative appearance issues that reflect on your confidence, remember that others come from an entirely different reality. Men judge a woman by their appearance. Women use an entirely different appraisal bases. They don't entirely judge by appearance but by many other factors.

Try Internet dating sites to to meet singles while tuning-up your online conversation skills.

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How To Meet Women At The Gym

by Joseph Matthews

If you’re the type of guy who likes to work out and take care of yourself, then chances are you spend a lot of time at the gym.
In fact, it’s not unusual for guys to spend anywhere from an hour to two hours a day working out!
From personal experience, when I work out, I’ll be at the gym five days a week, alternating between an hour of cardio and an hour of weight training.
And that time at the gym adds up! Some people even go further by joining classes, getting a personal trainer, and hanging out at the local juice bar. So it’s no surprise that because some of us spend so much time at the gym, we’d like to know how to meet women there!
After all, it’s not just the fact that some guys spend a lot of time working out at the gym, there’s also the fact that some very attractive women spend a lot of time there too! (In an effort to remain as attractive as possible, of course.)
But as much as it makes sense to try and meet girls during your workout, it can seem like a very daunting task! But if you know a few simple tricks for meeting women at the gym, you might be surprised to find that it’s actually easier to do than you think.
Let’s go through the tips now…

TIP #1: Taking Advantage Of Cardio
Typically, people will do cardio workouts for anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour. Let’s face it, that’s a LONG time to do nothing but run in place!
If you see an attractive girl you’d like to meet doing cardio, see if you can get on a machine next to her to do your cardio. This will give you the opportunity to start up a conversation with her.
You’ll be amazed at how easy it is to talk to someone when they’re doing a cardio workout, and that’s because cardio is BORING. The girl will typically be watching closed-caption TV, flipping through a magazine, or listening to music on an iPod. But talking to someone can pass the time just as fast, and as long as your approach is smooth, she’ll be more than willing to chat with you!

TIP #2: Find Out Her Playlist
One of the biggest obstacles guys face at the gym is competing with iPods. People like to listen to music when they work out, and seeing a pair of ear-plugs can scare you off from starting a conversation.
But I’ve found that actually asking the woman about the music she listens to when working out is a great way to not only get her to listen to you instead of music, but a good way to quickly bond with her over mutual interests.
The way I do it, is I’ll try and get the girl’s attention, either by waving at her or tapping her on her shoulder. This will get her to pause her music and look at me. Then I’ll say…
“Sorry to bother you, do you mind if I ask what music you’re listening to?”
When she give you her answer, you can respond:
“I’m getting kind of bored with my music, so I’m looking for some new stuff to listen to during my workout. What kind of music do you think is the best to workout to?”
From there, I can start talking about favorite bands, concerts I’ve been to, etc. It’s a great way to get her attention away from her iPod and focused on you!

TIP #3: Offer Advice
Often times, you’ll see girls working out throughout the gym on various machines or weights. A great way to start up conversations with them is to offer them advice or feedback on their form.
Just make sure that it’s “friendly” suggestions, and that you’re not telling them they’re doing things wrong.
People at the gym who work out without personal trainers usually have mistakes in how they are using machines or performing a certain exercise. So if you can offer them some tips on how to make their workout more effective, they’ll actually really appreciate it!
And once you offer them your advice, you can start asking them about their training goals, and carry on the conversation from there.
This is a very effective way of meeting girls who are weight training.

TIP #4: Join A Class
Most gyms offer a variety of classes you can sign up for. These range from yoga, to spinning, to dancing, etc.
Here’s a tip – most of these classes are filled by a majority of WOMEN. So taking a class can give you a tremendous opportunity to meet girls!
Not only that, but many classes can become social functions, and give you excuses to talk and chit-chat with girls. I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve dated because I was the only guy in their class at the gym.
You’ll also notice a lot of the girls in your classes also work out at the gym, so you have a great way of meeting them if you see them in the general training area. Just approach them and say “Hey, aren’t you in my spinning (or whatever) class?”
Seriously, it does not get much easier than that!

TIP #5: Take Advantage Of The Juice Bar
Most gyms nowadays have some type of juice bar, or place where you can sit down and drink a protein shake or smoothy. Take advantage of this when you’re trying to meet women at the gym!
There are two ways you can utilize a juice bar…
The first is to invite women you meet while working out to join you for a drink. This is a great way to do an “instant date” after meeting a girl. Instead of letting the girl just leave after she’s done working out, ask her if she’d be interested in grabbing a drink with you at the smoothy bar.
Then, sit down and chit-chat with her. It’s just like getting coffee together, but much quicker and easier.
The second way to use the juice bar area is to actually see if there are any women you’d like to meet there already, and ask to join them while you drink your beverage. Most women won’t refuse you, and you can start chit-chatting with them after you sit down.
Ultimately, there are lots of great ways to meet women during your workout. Just keep trying different methods until you find one that works for you.

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